A little letter can make a big difference.
Personalised letters from superhero Hairy Thought-Buster ✨
If your little one (aged 4–8) sometimes struggles with big feelings or negative thoughts… or if they’re facing challenging life circumstances… or you just want to celebrate the wonderful person they are…
You’re in the right place. 💛
Because there’s a very special superhero — a tiny, hairy, clumsy, big-hearted one — who’s writing personalised letters to help kids feel seen, loved, and empowered to face the challenges they’re experiencing.
His name? Hairy Thought-Buster.
His mission? To bust children’s negative thoughts before they become negative beliefs, and remind kids of the truth of their being: they are loved, they are worthy, and they are enough.
And now? He wants to write to your child. 📬
“This is absolutely beautifully written and just perfect for her. Thank you so much. I hope you keep doing this long term. After all, sometimes we could all use our own superhero cheering us on and reminding us just how special we are.” Brooke Cohen, parent
Why this matters (more than ever)
More children than ever are facing challenges with their mental health — especially those with ADHD, autism, anxiety, or kids going through big life changes like divorce, loss, or trauma.
Many of these children struggle with big feelings and harsh self-talk, thinking things like:
“I’m not enough.”
“It’s my fault.”
“There’s something wrong with me.”
And there’s a critical window before age 7, when a child’s core beliefs are being wired for life.
Without support, they might stop trying new things because they’re scared to fail.
They might pull away from friends, feeling like they don’t belong.
And as they grow up, these doubts can turn into lifelong struggles with anxiety, low self-esteem, and addiction — making it hard to ever feel truly “enough,” even when they succeed.
But what if we could interrupt those thoughts now and help them rewrite their story?
What if, at just the right moment, they could hear:
- 💖 You are loved just as you are.
- 💖 It’s not your fault.
- 💖 You’re not broken. You’re brilliant!
- 💖 You can do anything you put your mind to, and your brain will grow with practice.
- 💖 You deserve good friends who care about you.
That’s why every letter from Hairy Thought-Buster is more than just happy mail — it’s a loving reminder that they are seen, safe, and deeply loved… and that their thoughts are not who they are.
💛 Sometimes, hearing encouragement from a caring outside voice can make all the difference. When a superhero believes in a child completely… it can change everything.
Postage is included, to anywhere in the world!
Each letter comes with an adorable Fluffies sticker sheet, which kids love!
What’s in each letter?
Each personalised letter from Hairy Thought-Buster is printed on superhero stationery, and is lovingly crafted just for your child — based on their age, unique circumstances and strengths. Every letter includes (where appropriate):
And that’s not all! Included with every letter:
Click the sample letter to view it in more detail.
How does it work?
- Tell us about your childWhen you order, you’ll answer a few quick questions — like your child’s name, age, and what they’re going through right now. (Worried about monsters under the bed? Starting a new school? Doesn’t like the hair on their arms? We’ve got them!)
- Hairy writes the letterWith the help of AI, a sprinkle of magic, and an understanding of your child’s needs, Hairy Thought-Buster writes a personalised letter.
- You approve the letterWe’ll email you a preview before anything is sent, so you can confirm it, or request changes.
- The letter arrives in the postPrinted on Hairy’s special stationery and packaged with a magical Fluffies sticker sheet, your child’s letter is mailed — from Sydney, Australia — on or before the first week of the following month. Just imagine your child’s face lighting up when they receive a letter addressed personally to them… from a superhero!
✍️ Your child can write back
Hairy loves hearing from children! They can reply by email or post — and Hairy will read every message.
🧸 A keepsake they’ll treasure
Hairy’s letter is something your child can keep forever and re-read whenever they need comfort or reassurance.
💛 Order again any time
Order another letter whenever your child needs a boost — a big change, a tough week, or to celebrate a birthday! We could all use a superhero from time to time.
A superhero who empowers children’s minds and comforts their hearts.
Hairy Thought-Buster is a funny, lovable superhero for young minds who busts children’s negative thoughts before they become negative beliefs!
With his big heart and magic thought-wand, Hairy helps children see their worth, shift their thinking, and feel emotionally safe — even in their toughest moments.
He’s the ultimate companion for children aged 4–8, nurturing positive self-esteem, self-love and a growth mindset.
He’s second cousins with the Tooth Fairy and, in his spare time, enjoys rolling around in bubble wrap! 😊
Through his stories, wisdom, humour and unconditional love, he helps children discover the magic within themselves.
Hairy’s letters are for children who:
💛 Have big feelings or challenging behaviours
- feel anxious, shy or overwhelmed
- struggle with anger, defiance or meltdowns
- don’t want to try new things
🧠 Are neurodivergent or have unique needs
- are diagnosed with ADHD or autism
- have a learning difficulty
- live with a physical disability
- feel like they don’t belong
🌈 Struggle with self-esteem or identity
- say unkind things about themselves
- don’t like their appearance
- feel unsure of their gender or identity
- feel like they’re not good enough
🏡 Are navigating change or family stress
- have parents who are separated or away a lot
- are moving homes or changing schools
- feel jealous of a sibling
- have been adopted, fostered or abandoned
💔 Have experienced emotional pain or trauma
- are grieving a loved one or pet
- have been bullied or are struggling with friendships
- have experienced trauma, abuse, or neglect
💪 …or simply could use a superhero in their corner — someone to cheer them on and remind them how strong, unique, and lovable they truly are!
Why children (and parents) love it!
Helps children feel seen and celebrated
Hairy offers empathy, love and virtual hugs — using your child’s name, strengths, and challenges — so they feel recognised, valued and special.
Helps children understand and reframe their thoughts
Through engaging, relatable stories, Hairy helps children feel understood — gently guiding them to reframe unhelpful thoughts without making them feel “wrong” for having them. And he uses the power of visual imagery to help children understand: they are not their thoughts. It’s a key mindset shift, delivered in a way that feels fun and safe.
Brings a touch of magic
There’s something magical about a letter arriving just for you! Especially when it’s from a clumsy little superhero who knows your name and thinks you’re amazing. ✨📬
A superhero buddy who builds a personal connection
Every child deserves a superhero! Hairy is a wise, lovable superhero who “gets” what your child is going through. Over time Hairy becomes a buddy they can relate to and trust.
Hairy can’t wait to write to your child!
What others have said…
This is so good Michelle — gosh, you have the best way of phrasing things for children, and parents, about negative thoughts. Really, really valuable advice. And so supportive and loving. Thank you so much. Anne LaytonMother, educator, psychologist
A gorgeous resource for children and parents in busting those ‘hairy thoughts’ before they take hold. Lou ColesEFT and mindfulness practitioner, Evolve with Lou, Empowering You
Thank you thank you! This is so amazing. Thank you for taking the time to send it. I read it to my son this afternoon. He seemed to think about it a lot as I was reading it to him. I think it will be something we will revisit every night. Thanks again. Katey FulmerParent
Frequently asked questions
Can I order a letter for more than one child?
Yes, absolutely! You can either order a separate letter for each child — so each letter will come in its own envelope with its own Fluffies sticker sheet — or you can order one letter that’s addressed to multiple children. In this case, the letter will arrive in one envelope, with one Fluffies sticker sheet.
Simply select the number of letters you wish to order on the checkout page.
Does the recipient have to be between 4–8?
Not at all! Hairy’s letters can be sent to children of any age — even to grown-ups (because we all have an inner child who needs love)! Hairy will tailor the letter’s message based on the recipient’s age. It’s just that some older children may find Hairy and the Fluffies a little childish.
You’ll be asked for the recipient’s age in the form we send you after you place your order.
Can I order a letter for myself?
Yes — you can absolutely order a letter for yourself! Hairy loves writing to inner children — especially the ones who didn’t get the encouragement, comfort, or joy they truly deserved growing up.
If you’d like your letter to speak directly to that tender part of you, just let us know in the form once you place your order. We’ll make sure it feels like a big warm hug from someone who sees you.
How long does it take to arrive?
Hairy will usually write and email his letter for your approval within 3 business days. Once you have confirmed (or changed) the message, we aim to print and post the letter (from Sydney, Australia) within 3–5 business days. Delivery may take up to 15 business days, depending on where you live.
Can I order the letter in a language other than English?
Yes. You can specify your preferred language in the form we send you after you place your order. Please note that Hairy’s stationery and envelope will have English words on them, and our emails to you will be in English.
Can I send the letter as a gift?
Absolutely! Just enter the child’s name and mailing address in the form we send you after checkout, and we’ll send it straight to them — no pricing included inside.
Can I buy one of the Fluffies as a pet for my child?
No, the Fluffies are not for sale. How much were you thinking?
How will the information I provide be used?
Here’s a link to our Privacy Policy.
Hi, I’m Michelle Lowbeer
I’m a vibrant, playful creative who loves dancing like no-one’s watching, running in nature, and making children laugh (adults too, for that matter)! I live in sunny Sydney, Australia, with my husband, our two beautiful teenage daughters, and our cat, Koala.
My journey has been anything but conventional. I’m a children’s book author, poet, entrepreneur, Biodanza facilitator, and personal development enthusiast. Before finding my creative calling, I studied psychology for two years, then pivoted to commerce, becoming an accountant and financial planner. Life took me to Singapore for four years as a ‘dependent spouse’. It was there, during a simple school drop-off, that the idea for Hairy Thought-Buster was born, setting me on a mission to help children challenge their negative thoughts and build empowering beliefs!
Our mission
Our mission is to comfort and empower children to know their worth, challenge their negative thoughts and feel deeply loved — through magical letters, children’s books, animated adventures and an AI superhero buddy who sees their brilliance!
Give your child a little mindset magic!
Turn their toughest thoughts upside down — with a letter they’ll treasure forever!
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